Ex's
I've always had a problem with letting people that I've had feelings for go. When I feel such a connection with someone I fail to give up on what I feel. I search for that feeling from other people, but always fail to feel it. Sometimes I end up with rebounds knowing that there's no way in hell it's going to last but yet still find myself getting attached.
I know so many faces now that I pretend not to when walking past them on the street. Does that make me strong or afraid? I get so confused. Specially when an ex wants me back. Its like do I give into what they and I want? Or do I move onto better and save myself from getting hurt?
I have one ex that I broke up with over 20 times. I mean it's ridiculous how many times we broke up and then got back together. Even when we were just friends we'd argue non-stop. but I loved him. I loved him so fucking much it scared me. Every time we broke up I cried my eyes out until my eyes couldn't even produce any more tears. He caused so much pain. I swear the people who can make me the happiest can also make me the saddest.
My problem with relationships in the past is that I was too reliant on them for happiness vis versa. I was only happy when I was with them and when I wasn't I was always in the bitchiest mood. But trust me I learned my lesson because when they left I didn't know what to do. I lost my fucking mind, cut my hair and stayed in bed for days.
Yet after everything I've been through with these ex's I'd still be friends with them. So now I question myself if its ok to be friends with someone you once loved without falling in love with them again? Can you learn from a mistake only so many times until you give in? Or can you truly move on? Also does moving on mean leaving all your ex's in the past no questions ask?
I know so many faces now that I pretend not to when walking past them on the street. Does that make me strong or afraid? I get so confused. Specially when an ex wants me back. Its like do I give into what they and I want? Or do I move onto better and save myself from getting hurt?
I have one ex that I broke up with over 20 times. I mean it's ridiculous how many times we broke up and then got back together. Even when we were just friends we'd argue non-stop. but I loved him. I loved him so fucking much it scared me. Every time we broke up I cried my eyes out until my eyes couldn't even produce any more tears. He caused so much pain. I swear the people who can make me the happiest can also make me the saddest.
My problem with relationships in the past is that I was too reliant on them for happiness vis versa. I was only happy when I was with them and when I wasn't I was always in the bitchiest mood. But trust me I learned my lesson because when they left I didn't know what to do. I lost my fucking mind, cut my hair and stayed in bed for days.
Yet after everything I've been through with these ex's I'd still be friends with them. So now I question myself if its ok to be friends with someone you once loved without falling in love with them again? Can you learn from a mistake only so many times until you give in? Or can you truly move on? Also does moving on mean leaving all your ex's in the past no questions ask?
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